Today I present an online course that I think can help you a lot in the education of your children. Its about Workshop of the Intelligent Families traffic light technique, carried out by the psychologist Antonio Ortuño, with whom we have already spoken several times in Babies and more.
At this point, no person who intends to educate doubts that love is the engine of growth. An unwanted child is not loved, and if you do not want it is difficult for you to establish healthy affectionate relationships in the future. If love is a pillar of education, the other is ... This is where the most controversial arises. There is no concept that everyone likes. Set limits, positive discipline, firmness ... 
The project Smart Families He calls it respectful control. They argue that self-control is a fundamental personality variable to be happy, and that in order to promote self-control, there has previously had to be respectful external control. Respectful with what? With the evolutionary times, with the emotions that accompany the trip. No punishments, no scolding.
Control of what? From what he cannot decide why we have to protect him and decide for them, what he can decide but with our help, and what the child can decide on his own. That is, going from being essential to expendable.
This is what arises with the traffic light technique of Smart Families, that you can meet her on the page of the psychologist Antonio Ortuño, and where you can go deeper into the next online workshop on December 12 that Smart Families will be doing.
